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08-19-2006, 05:30 AM | #82 |
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Okay, okay, we need to get back to the REAL issue here...
Leis needs a date! Ladies, any takers? (sound of crickets chirping) (taps microphone) Hello? Is this thing on? |
08-19-2006, 11:53 AM | #83 | |
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08-19-2006, 11:59 AM | #84 | |
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08-19-2006, 12:44 PM | #85 | |
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So, even though I might well have better luck trying to date women, I just find myself uninterested. (Yeah, I know, there's something kind of bizarre about a woman that can't understand her own gender...) Even if I can't figure out why I can't find a guy who's both attracted to me and enjoys being around me (I can find men who are one or the other...) Then again, I don't always understand why many of my female friends are attracted to the men they are, either. Romance in general is something a logical mind can't ever hope to understand. Peace & Luv, Liz
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08-19-2006, 12:55 PM | #86 | |
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08-19-2006, 01:02 PM | #87 |
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What consistently amazes me is that, in a world of billions of people, a large percentage of people find and end up in successful relationships. Yes, a lot of that can probably be attributed to scientific reasons and such, but it's still rather impressive when you think about it.
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08-19-2006, 01:13 PM | #88 | |
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I'm not saying that you should stay in a bad relationship if it really is bad for you, but no relationship/marriage is all easy. It's give and take all the way. I've heard that about 50% of all marriages in the US end up in divorce. (Not sure at all if it's true) I know that's the case in parts of Sweden anyway.
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08-19-2006, 01:31 PM | #89 | |
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Furthermore, I find the "mind games" types of flirting bizarre and stupid. I mean, if somebody's busy playing hard-to-get, teasing me, or playing "maybe I will, maybe I won't", I'm not going to be more attracted to them, I'm going to either get fed up or assume they're not interested, and give up. It puzzles me that this is a successful gambit to other people. I prefer to be straightforward and practical. (After all, the fun part is the relationship itself, not the waste of time tiptoeing around when you both like each other anyway...) Peace & Luv, Liz
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08-19-2006, 01:44 PM | #90 | |
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08-19-2006, 03:34 PM | #91 | |
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08-19-2006, 03:39 PM | #92 | |
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Of course, if we went by that, BoyToy and I would've probably split up long ago, given we're the worst arguers ever (we're both very insistant and passionate about our beliefs and easily get pissy when we're not gently told we're being stupid about something), but then, we're also both incapable of holding grudges. I know, trust me, I've tried. ...hm, what was my point again?
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08-19-2006, 03:49 PM | #93 | |
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For one, a relationship doesn't start when you "get together" - you're in a relationship with everyone you communicate with, and it's in your power to change that relationship for better or worse. Flirting is part of the relationship you have with a person - which includes "mind games". Don't you and your friends play games occasionally? There's a reason it's called "mind games" - it's a form of playing with each other. Like playful jokes make you smile, what's there to say about playful actions not elicting a smile? I gather you don't like it - that's your preference - but please don't claim that what happens before dating is generally a waste of time. It's as enriching as you allow it to be.
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08-19-2006, 04:06 PM | #94 |
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It's always amazing to hear how people meet and finally end up together. The stories are always so different. One couple I knew were lab partners in a college science course and she hated from the get go but as they kept working together.... now they're married and have a kid.
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You always hear all this advice about "playing hard-to-get" and the power of being "mysterious", when to me someone who's mysterious, misleading, and/or hard to get a read on is usually a big turn off for me. Then again, that's probably part of why I'm hopelessly single (which kind of fuels my annoyance). To me, the "fact-finding" part of any aspect of life I usually find a necessary evil at best and I'd rather just get it overwith expediently. It's finding the best way to put those facts and information to use that I enjoy. Peace & Luv, Liz
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I read something one time that said people are attracted to each other by their body smell... I know that kind’ a gross but a study done a few years ago says other wise. It all pheromones. I also agree with Jeysie, in the part of she gets along with guys better. I have always felt more comfortable around guys then girls and when I am around girls there seems like a lot tension in the air, even if we are good friends.
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Or, in the other example that comes to mind, the woman I was engaged to who was with me to just "get married" by a certain age, with no real intention of ever having more than a superficial relationship. She was married less than a month after we parted ways...and she was miserable. So, yeah...I'm NOT good at reading people, lol. I'd make a lousy FBI profiler! |
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I had a discussion with someone on IRC about this yesterday after posting - I figured that, in the end, it boils down to being one of those things a part of wanting to give your best for someone else. Confronted with a bit of a challenge, you get that oppurtunity handed to you in a gratis fashion.
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I get terribly upset, too - but it passes very quickly. Usually, whenever I touch BoyToy (hands, shoulder, whatever), or vice versa, any irritation just falls away. Since I've noticed this, I've tried to avoid body-contact when I want to be pissy at him... but, well, even then, grudges are hard to hold (which is what I meant with trying). Crazy, crazy stuff.
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