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Originally Posted by Jelena
I believe that it's far worse to never argue passionatley. I actually wouldn't be in my marriage if we never argued, it would scare me. That would make me feel like the relationship isn't solid enough for a heated debate.
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Agreed.
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Originally Posted by Jelena
I don't like personal insults and name calling though.
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That's where we fail. Occasionally, at any rate. You'd think by now we'd know we're mirror images of one another, but no, we have to (1) accuse the other person of being the problem, (2) offer a mirror if the recipient of such accusations.
*chuckles*
I get terribly upset, too - but it passes very quickly. Usually, whenever I touch BoyToy (hands, shoulder, whatever), or vice versa, any irritation just falls away. Since I've noticed this, I've tried to avoid body-contact when I want to be pissy at him... but, well, even then, grudges are hard to hold (which is what I meant with trying).
Crazy, crazy stuff.
