Help Me Overcome Nervousness - Page 2

Jatsie · 02-07-2007, 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Catbert

<- does this look like Col. Hannibal or what?

"I love it when a plan comes together"

bulldog · 02-07-2007, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Catbert

You're 1 in a hundred, trust me.

well gosh thanks man.

The geek guys are the way to go

rlpw · 02-07-2007, 11:28 AM

I'm just afraid he might of listened to us

bulldog · 02-07-2007, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by rlpw

I'm just afraid he might of listened to us

Well if he did then he will probably be ok..... We all gave him pretty much the same advice.... take it slow and get to know her.

But then again he is a big boy and he can make his own choices

Hammerite · 02-07-2007, 01:15 PM

but i'm still young and scared

cookie please?

bulldog · 02-07-2007, 02:38 PM

Sure Ham here you go milk and cookies (fresh baked). Not to worry my good man, love will bite you on the behind soon.

*hugs Ham* care for a snog

Catbert · 02-07-2007, 02:43 PM

Love shouldn't be biting him in the behind, he's a guy. Isn't he?

bulldog · 02-07-2007, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Catbert

Love shouldn't be biting him in the behind, he's a guy. Isn't he?

Yup, he's a guy, but just b/c he is a guy doesn't mean he wouldn't enjoy a little nibble now and then.

I'm all woman and I love a little bite on the behind now and then

Squinky · 02-07-2007, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Catbert

Right, like chicks in your generation don't dig this kind of thing. You like jerks, for once come out and admit it...

You're absolutely right; I love being treated like crap by my boyfriends. And I also like to whine all about them to my "nice guy" friends, while they listen and act sympathetic all the while wishing they could bang me. (But they'll never get to, of course, because y'know, I only sleep with jerks.)

I'm obviously joking, by the way. The truth is, I myself am as geeky as they come. Even geek boys pass me up for prettier girls. It's true!

SnorkleCat · 02-07-2007, 11:21 PM

so why does it always have to be jerks vs geeks?
Geeks can be total jerks too...

Hammerite · 02-08-2007, 12:02 AM

er... yeah...
sorry bout that... i guess...

Catbert · 02-08-2007, 05:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Squinky

You're absolutely right; I love being treated like crap by my boyfriends. And I also like to whine all about them to my "nice guy" friends, while they listen and act sympathetic all the while wishing they could bang me. (But they'll never get to, of course, because y'know, I only sleep with jerks.)

I'm obviously joking, by the way. The truth is, I myself am as geeky as they come. Even geek boys pass me up for prettier girls. It's true!

I don't trust your judgement, doc.

bulldog · 02-08-2007, 07:06 AM

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Originally Posted by SnorkleCat

so why does it always have to be jerks vs. geeks?
Geeks can be total jerks too...

It’s not always geeks vs. jocks, or cheerleaders vs. other girls, it’s just the category that we lump people into. I was always the “other type of girl” group. I was never the pretty one or the popular one, I was just me. I hung out with the guys and worked on cars, lifted weights and would shot the shit with them b/c that was just me. I’ve never put up fronts to get someone to like me.
I agree the geeks can be jerk too, but what I have found in the dating world before I got married was that the geeks that “try” and be a jerk is b/c a chic hurt them and they are scared that it might happen again. I have found (again this is just my view point) that geeks are the ones that want to be close to you, they want to smoother you with love and they want to go out of their way to make you happy, because that is the way “you” the girl make them feel, and a jerk doesn’t care how he makes you or anyone else feel.

But then again that is just my two cents

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Originally Posted by Catbert

I don't trust your judgement, doc.

Would you trust my judgment?* If not I might be persuade to show you a little leg to change your mind

*I’m just joking, please don’t think that I was trying to make light of something if you were serious*

Squinky · 02-08-2007, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by SnorkleCat

Geeks can be total jerks too...

Oh, definitely.

Hammerite · 02-08-2007, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Squinky

Oh, definitely.

that makes a few things VERY clear.
VEEERRY clear.

Catbert · 02-08-2007, 01:34 PM

That's not even a point. Apart from gays, every guy wants to bang every chick he can. We are the way we are.

Spiwak · 02-08-2007, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Squinky

You're absolutely right; I love being treated like crap by my boyfriends. And I also like to whine all about them to my "nice guy" friends, while they listen and act sympathetic all the while wishing they could bang me. (But they'll never get to, of course, because y'know, I only sleep with jerks.)[/SIZE]

That sounds just like me.

And Catbert's right. It's a fact that we imagine at least once what it'd be like to be having sex with the girl we're talking to right then, maybe even every girl we just happen to take special notice of. Completely natural, I think.

Squinky · 02-08-2007, 05:16 PM

That is precisely why every girl needs a gay boyfriend.

And that reminds me...

Spiwak · 02-08-2007, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Squinky

That is precisely why every girl needs a gay boyfriend.

Are you telling me you're not fantasizing about Fallout Boy/PipBoy right now? Cuz I don't buy it...

Giligan · 02-08-2007, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Spiwak

That sounds just like me.

And Catbert's right. It's a fact that we imagine at least once what it'd be like to be having sex with the girl we're talking to right then, maybe even every girl we just happen to take special notice of. Completely natural, I think.

That just stems from the fact that the chances of actually scoring a date, not to mention sex, is such a slim option, the odds nearly impossible. Unless you're "in the right spot at the right time" like everyone else seems to be,

and the perfect girl actually notices you instead of acting like they're as bored as a stock-car driver at a chess match. We have to make up for that somehow.

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