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09-19-2005, 07:08 PM | #44 |
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Scott: That's a nice sentiment... erm, is there anything I do to work with that with the younger fellows so I can find a date without having to wait two decades until I'm old enough to date the men who find me attractive?
Peace & Luv, Liz
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09-19-2005, 07:11 PM | #45 | |
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09-19-2005, 07:13 PM | #46 | |
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By the time you're old and grumpy - eh, I mean, experienced and wise, it will be the opposite way. You'll be having some fun with the hot, young lads and enjoying the envy of your friends! Sister, you've got some serious joy to look forward to.
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09-19-2005, 07:17 PM | #47 | |
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I assume you're in your 20s, am I right? I'll tell you right now, a lot of guys around your age are looking for things in a woman different from men 10, 20 years older than they. Conversely, there are some older men merely looking to screw a younger woman (just like a lot of 20something guys ). Also, remember that the younger you are, the more insecure you feel. What do a lot of insecure men try to do to ease their insecurities? They screw young attractive women (not all the time, there are other things, like owning very expensive cars, etc.). What do confident men do? Other things. (and yeah, I know this partly from talking to my many lady friends and to some of my older male friends)
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09-19-2005, 07:19 PM | #48 |
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Jeysie - is it possible that you're not looking in the right place for the kind of guys who would like you? I don't know where you meet guys that you're interested in, but some places like colleges, and bars are the places where only the "right" type of sexy girl is sought after. There are guys your age who would appreciate your qualities, but maybe not where you're looking for them. You may need to be creative here. Talk to the guys in the Home Depot store, volunteer to help out at a shelter and talk to some of the guys working there. Look where you might find a guy with stability and maturity.
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09-19-2005, 07:22 PM | #49 |
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Again, spot on. If you want to meet someone you like, go where they congregate.
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09-19-2005, 07:26 PM | #50 |
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"Hi. I'm David." has always worked well for me.
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09-19-2005, 07:26 PM | #51 |
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Sam: (chuckle)
Nice thought, but I'm not any more attracted to men significantly younger than me than I am men significantly older than me. I find I can only be attracted to a man if I feel like I'm on close to equal footing with him emotionally and intellectually. Lynsie: I don't go to bars or nightclubs... I don't drink, and I find crowds uncomfortable. So far I've just met guys wherever I happen to go in my normal travels... the mall, the bus stop, work, concerts, etc. I guess part of my problem is that my hobbies are all either solitary or tend to draw older crowds... like barbershop, for instance. (shrug) Where does one go to meet geeks, anyway? Peace & Luv, Liz
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09-19-2005, 07:33 PM | #53 | |
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09-19-2005, 07:41 PM | #54 | |
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09-19-2005, 07:44 PM | #55 |
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And online. You're 1/3 there already, Jeysie.
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I usually do small talk, and, depending on whether the conversation feels like taking off or not, I keep trying or not.
On a side note, I was in my favorite gaming store the other day, and a pretty young woman was asking a seller advice about myst like adventure, and the guy told her stupid things like "yeah, they all recent, so they're all good", etc... So after he went I asked the girl if she wanted some advice, and showed up my l33t AG skills. EDIT: So it's all about creating opporunities, sizing them, and then let the conversation flow. I used to suck at that, but thanks in part to the necessity of communicating for my job, I'm beginning to feel more at ease. Of course, by some interesting paradox, these skills have appeared right after I met my girlfriend, rendering them pretty useless in the day to day life. Well, I can meet some new friends, but I have already too many of them (in fact, I don't have many friends, but since I like to spend a lot of time with each of them individually, that takes up plenty of my time).
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"What are you drawing?"
A girl asked me that on the train yesterday. What I was working on at the time wasn't particularly interesting, just some planning drawings for an animation, but I showed some of my other drawings and we got talking for a bit until the train arrived at her destination and she had to leave... |
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