[SakSquash]

Originally Posted by Tinariwen

we are both agains sex before marrige!

Wuss.

[Fairygdmther]

Originally Posted by temporaryscars

Wuss.

You know that his (and her) decision to not have sex is MUCH harder to carry out than giving in to your baser needs. Wuss doesn't seem to fit here. I know I don't have what it takes to do that, and neither do most of the rest of us.

It is a noble thought, but it means that neither one has had any sexual experience before a marriage, and that could make for a painful and unhappy wedding night. It might make more sense to consummate the relationship a month or two before the wedding, then all the discomfort is worked out ahead of time and the wedding night can be pure delight.

Lynsie

[SakSquash]

Originally Posted by Fairygdmther

You know that his (and her) decision to not have sex is MUCH harder to carry out than giving in to your baser needs. Wuss doesn't seem to fit here. I know I don't have what it takes to do that, and neither do most of the rest of us.

It is a noble thought, but it means that neither one has had any sexual experience before a marriage, and that could make for a painful and unhappy wedding night. It might make more sense to consummate the relationship a month or two before the wedding, then all the discomfort is worked out ahead of time and the wedding night can be pure delight.

Lynsie

I could do it.

[Sage]

Originally Posted by Fairygdmther

You know that his (and her) decision to not have sex is MUCH harder to carry out than giving in to your baser needs. I know I don't have what it takes to do that, and neither do most of the rest of us.

Amen, sister! I'm a firm believer in "Try it before you buy it".

It is a noble thought, but it means that neither one has had any sexual experience before a marriage, and that could make for a painful and unhappy wedding night.

...filled with several rounds of the "You want me to do WHAT?!?!? You CAN NOT be serious!!!" game.

It might make more sense to consummate the relationship a month or two before the wedding, then all the discomfort is worked out ahead of time and the wedding night can be pure delight.

Listen to the lady. She knows whereof she speaks.

Originally Posted by temporaryscars

I could do it.

You do realize that "No sex before marriage" means no sex with people other than your fiance, too, don't you?

[Fairygdmther]

Originally Posted by temporaryscars

I could do it.

Temps, you're a very strong person - I don't doubt that you could do most anything you put your mind to do. You've been through some rough times and it's made you tough. You know yourself pretty well, and what you can and can't or won't do.

Scott, thanks for the support. "...filled with several rounds of the "You want me to do WHAT?!?!? You CAN NOT be serious!!!" game." You did forget the line that follows that - "I didn't know you were like THAT! I want a divorce!"

Those inexperienced in sexual affairs often don't realize that there is a raw animalistic and somewhat forceful side of intercourse. It's not all sweet, cuddly, kissy-poo - it can be quite demanding of both parties. This can be frightening if you don't expect it.

Lynsie

[SakSquash]

Originally Posted by Fairygdmther

Temps, you're a very strong person - I don't doubt that you could do most anything you put your mind to do. You've been through some rough times and it's made you tough. You know yourself pretty well, and what you can and can't or won't do.

Lynsie

Thanks?

[Fairygdmther]

Originally Posted by temporaryscars

Thanks?

You're welcome! Just an observation...

Lynsie

[Captain Blondebeard]

Originally Posted by Tinariwen

we are both agains sex before marrige!

You have to start puberty first before you can get it on buddy. Well, did you at least get your first boobie rub with you singer/actress/model girfriend?

[Captain Blondebeard]

Originally Posted by Fairygdmther

You know that his (and her) decision to not have sex is MUCH harder to carry out than giving in to your baser needs. Wuss doesn't seem to fit here. I know I don't have what it takes to do that, and neither do most of the rest of us.

It is a noble thought, but it means that neither one has had any sexual experience before a marriage, and that could make for a painful and unhappy wedding night. It might make more sense to consummate the relationship a month or two before the wedding, then all the discomfort is worked out ahead of time and the wedding night can be pure delight.

Lynsie

Oh god, sex with a virgin flashbacks.

[Captain Blondebeard]

Originally Posted by Fairygdmther

Temps, you're a very strong person - I don't doubt that you could do most anything you put your mind to do. You've been through some rough times and it's made you tough. You know yourself pretty well, and what you can and can't or won't do.


Lynsie

I think Temp knows himself better than any guy here

Originally Posted by Captain Blondebeard

You have to start puberty first before you can get it on buddy. Well, did you at least get your first boobie rub with you singer/actress/model girfriend?

14 = pubescent.

Originally Posted by Tinariwen

okey here come fresh info of my first date: we ate at the sushi place, it was freaking fun, we laugh all the time, and when we hade eaten so much it is silly, we meet one of her friends and we talked for a wile,but the friend sould go to guthenburg, so we whent on a bar, satt there for like 5 hours talking, then we start to kiss, and that kind of stuff, no details. and the night was perfect.then I went home to her, and that was nice to, hehe
and I came home like 5 in the morning.

Pics or it didn't happen.

[SakSquash]

Kee-ripes. I don't know how to feel about this whole thing...

[Captain Blondebeard]

Originally Posted by SamNMax

14 = pubescent.

Does that offend you?

Very much.

[Hammerite]

And me.

[samIamsad]

Always keep in mind:

If it isn't penetration, then it isn't worth a kiss.