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Hammerite 04-06-2008 09:10 AM

Snow is nice.

lumi 04-06-2008 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by stepurhan (Post 465003)
Here in the frozen wastes of the UK it is snowing. Heavily.

It's April for goodness sake! Time of Spring and new growth and not needing my winter coat any more!!! :crazy:

Yeah, I saw that on the news when they showed the China protests, and I figured that might be odd. Here near Seattle we got a fair amount of snow last weekend. Not at all normal, but at least it'll extend the ski season. I just hope it doesn't mean a mild summer again like last year.

Hammerite 04-06-2008 10:24 AM

It's stopped now. :frown:

MystGirl 04-06-2008 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Melanie68 (Post 464965)
Pretty kitty! Euthanizing a friend who's been with you for so long is tough. :frown:

I hope you remember all the good times (and even some of the naughty kitty moments :devil: ).

As for blogs, I visit this one pretty often:

Beyond Blue (the writer also has bipolar)

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Originally Posted by Merricat (Post 464991)
I know that grief well. When I got my first apartment, I also got two cats. One lived 17 years, and the other stayed with me for 22 years. I am very sorry for your loss.

Quote:

Originally Posted by stepurhan (Post 465003)
Sorry about your cat MystGirl. Looks like a fine animal.

Here in the frozen wastes of the UK it is snowing. Heavily.

It's April for goodness sake! Time of Spring and new growth and not needing my winter coat any more!!! :crazy:

Haven't got a digital camera so I can't do immediate pictures but my wife's taken some with her ordinary camera so may be able to at some point in the future.




Thank you everyone, for the kind words. (it does help)


Speaking of snow, supposedly, we've had the "snowiest" winter Illinois has had in the past ten years. I am definitely, looking forward to spring.

MystGirl 04-09-2008 11:38 PM

Dear AG blog. I flossed today, and now I can feel my heartbeat "throbbing" in my sore gums. Damn you floss! Damn you to hell!

:D

Giligan 04-10-2008 01:51 PM

I just got back from Indiana. There's always something a tad unsettling about being on a bridge in the middle of a "river", and seeing nothing but deep, choppy water and half-submerged trees, well, as far as the eye can see.

EDIT:

Oh. My. Gawd.


Six P-51 Mustangs just flew over my house. :9~ :9~ :9~ :9~ :9~ :9~ :9~ :9~

Jelena 04-12-2008 09:32 AM

Mr J works out of town this week, including weekend. And it's boring being at home by myself. (My son's out with friends and my daughter can't let go of the telephone) I can't wait until he gets a new job, which might be very soon. Nothing confirmed yet.
So tonight, it'll be me, a grilled sandwich, half a bottle of red wine and George Clooney.

Merricat 04-13-2008 03:26 AM

Hmmm, that's odd. When my husband is out of town, George Clooney comes to visit me, as well. He must be a busy man, that Mr. Clooney.


I've decided not to be involved in this year's film festival. As much as I love screening films for the competition, it takes up a lot of time, and I don't like what's happening behind the scenes with certain staff members and Board interference. Why is it that as soon as there's a modicum of power to be had, everything goes to hell? It would be tragic if it weren't so damn laughable. Idiots.
On the bright side, we can actually leave for weeks at a time without causing a major festival crisis. Free! I'm freeeeee!

We now return to your regular program.

Merricat 04-14-2008 12:50 PM

I just found out that the big, beautiful old tree that dominates our back lawn is sick and must be cut down. :frown:

tsa 04-14-2008 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Merricat (Post 465883)
I just found out that the big, beautiful old tree that dominates our back lawn is sick and must be cut down. :frown:

I guess you don't live in the Anne Frank House then.

Jelena 04-15-2008 06:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Merricat (Post 465883)
I just found out that the big, beautiful old tree that dominates our back lawn is sick and must be cut down. :frown:

We have a similar situation with a cherry tree in our back yard. Hopefully it'll survive another year, but it's not likely.
Cutting down a big tree sure changes the entire area/garden and doesn't feel good at all.
I think I'll join you in a frown: :frown:

Lee in Limbo 04-15-2008 08:44 AM

Dear Aggie

I'm sorry I haven't been around lately. I've been far more busy than I should be helping to build a brand new Hordeside World of Warcraft guild, Kharma, which frankly takes up more of my time and concentration than it should. Hopefully things will settle down soon and I can get back to doing important stuff.

My wife and I set up the guild's website, which is HERE. I designed the banner myself, and did a lot of organizing the forums and stuff, hashing out guild policy and fun stuff like that. We've been up and running for a few weeks and we're already discussing a possible merger with another small guild at about the same stage as we are in the game. Could be disaster, could be cool.

Meanwhile, I haven't done much of anything else that needs doing. I have an appointment today, but other than that, I'm just trying to get myself in the right frame of mind to take care of business for a change. I'm just sitting here, sipping cold tea and listening to very old, rather weird Pink Floyd music from the late 60s and thinking I need to get cleaned up soon. Zero motivation. *sigh*

bulldog 04-15-2008 04:22 PM

Great site..... I'm going to check it out ;)

Merricat 04-16-2008 03:16 PM

Edward Lorenz, the father of chaos theory, died at his home in Cambridge, Mass., Wednesday. He was 90.

Merricat 04-17-2008 04:11 PM

Today is the best day I've had in a year. We had to take our daughter into the city to see the pulmonologist, have a chest x-ray, breathing test, etc., and today we got the news that she can go off her medication. We'll take her back to the specialist in about four months to make sure all is continuing well, but--I can't articulate the relief and joy that I feel. It's like I had steel bands running through my entire body, keeping me upright during this long nightmare, and the bands are finally beginning to dissolve. Nothing has ever meant more to me.
Drinks on the house!
:D:D:D

tsa 04-17-2008 08:16 PM

Congratulations Marricat! I know what you've gone through; my parents went to some of those ordeals with me.

Jelena 04-18-2008 04:24 AM

Great news Merricat! :)

Merricat 04-18-2008 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Jelena (Post 466238)
Great news Merricat! :)

Thank you! And thank you Tsa!

Everything else is gravy. :)

stepurhan 04-19-2008 08:40 AM

Good news Merricat. I'm glad for you and your family.
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Originally Posted by stepurhan (Post 465003)
Haven't got a digital camera so I can't do immediate pictures but my wife's taken some with her ordinary camera so may be able to at some point in the future.

As promised, here are a couple of snowy pictures from the arctic waste that is the UK.

The view from the room I'm in now. (A lot less snowy today)

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a3...309_nr_000.jpg

Our back garden. Chairs on the left. The peculiar thing in the middle is a snow-laden rotary drier. The mysterious glow at the top of the picture is the kitchen light (my wife sensibly took this picture from indoors. It's reflecting on the window)

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a3...309_22_003.jpg

Not A Speck Of Cereal 04-19-2008 08:22 PM

Last Saturday it was 80 degrees in some parts of the greater Seattle area. The last three days? Snow--go figure.

Jelena 04-20-2008 03:25 AM

In a couple of minutes I'm off to some fancy afternoon tea at a fashionable country mansion in the neighbourhood.
My co-workers and I really need this after a couple of hectic weeks at work.

Lee in Limbo 04-20-2008 09:54 PM

Raided Karazhan tonight and cleared everything except Nightbane and Netherspite. We may finish those up tomorrow. I'm tired. Later.

Squinky 04-20-2008 11:01 PM

I'm tired of exam time.

tsa 04-21-2008 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Jelena (Post 466435)
In a couple of minutes I'm off to some fancy afternoon tea at a fashionable country mansion in the neighbourhood.
My co-workers and I really need this after a couple of hectic weeks at work.

Was it nice Jelena?

Jelena 04-21-2008 02:21 AM

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Originally Posted by tsa (Post 466521)
Was it nice Jelena?

It was very nice, but also very expensive. I don't think I'll make it a habit going there on Sunday afternoons.

Jatsie 04-25-2008 07:14 AM

I learnt to be assertive today. I sent back my lunch in a bistro, I decided I wasn't going to do that British thing of refusing to complain, if they expected my money, they were going to damn well bring me exactly what I wanted. It was very empowering.

bulldog 04-25-2008 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Jat316sob (Post 466970)
I learnt to be assertive today. I sent back my lunch in a bistro, I decided I wasn't going to do that British thing of refusing to complain, if they expected my money, they were going to damn well bring me exactly what I wanted. It was very empowering.

Good for you Jatsie..... :D

Jelena 04-28-2008 10:09 AM

Today I had a really challenging day at work. I had to bring in the parents to four students who have been bullying a younger boy at school. It was a very delicate matter to make them see what really has been going on and disregard from their own children's versions of events.

Parent's often have a hard time understanding that their children not always behave the same at home as they do in school and sometimes, especially the mums take things personally which doesn't help the situation at all. I usually refer to them as "tiger mums".

I do feel that all of the parents understood the situation well by the time we finished our meeting and we made a plan on how to proceed with helping the bullied child and also helping the bullies to stop their behaviour.

Now I'm completely exhausted! :frown:

Hammerite 04-28-2008 01:33 PM

Yeah but you WITHHELD JUSTICE

Jatsie 04-28-2008 02:46 PM

My laptop broke on Saturday, my attempts to fix it were to no avail, it's clearly a hardware issue. I bought a new one to temporarily keep me going until I can have it fixed, and all I can say is, I hate Windows Vista. It's so slow, and just generally irritating, bah! At least I can use the internet now, so it's a small price to pay I suppose.

Squinky 04-28-2008 04:37 PM

Jelena, as someone who was once bullied as a kid (by the principal's son, among others!), I admire that you're trying to do something to help, yet also slightly skeptical about what talking to the parents will achieve. Maybe things have changed for the better since the early nineties, but in my experience, bringing adults into the situation, if anything, only results in the bullying becoming more covert rather than overt. You're doing the best you can, but sometimes, the best thing you can hope for is for the kid to survive it all and become a stronger and more interesting person. Switching schools sometimes helps, too. :)

Incidentally, I'm currently spending a little bit of time in the city in which I lived when all that happened.

Merricat 04-29-2008 05:50 AM

My little girl was bullied at school because she is small and sweet--not having siblings, no one had ever been mean to her before, so she was completely stunned and at a loss for what to do. I don't know how old you were when you were bullied, Squinky, and I don't know the age bracket you're working with, Jelena, but everyone involved in our situation was in kindergarten. The bullies (and there were several) were required to spend their recess time cleaning up different areas in the Lower School area, and Will and I worked with our girl, teaching her how to stand up for herself and when to go to the faculty for help. It worked, but that may be because they are so young. I do know how exhausting the whole process is, Jelena, and I commend you for fighting the good fight, as it were. You are a good human. :)

SSH 04-29-2008 06:24 AM

Yay for homeschooling. Only my wife and I can bully our kids ;)

Jelena 04-29-2008 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Squinky (Post 467258)
Jelena, as someone who was once bullied as a kid (by the principal's son, among others!), I admire that you're trying to do something to help, yet also slightly skeptical about what talking to the parents will achieve.

I can understand your scepticism when it comes to teenage kids. Some parents lose their influence over their children early. But in this case I'd say talking to the parents will make all the difference since these children only are 8-9 y/o. We have routines when it comes to dealing with bullies and they include parents since they, after all, are very important persons in their children's lives. I could go on talking writing about this for a long time, I won't though...;)
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Originally Posted by Merricat (Post 467298)
It worked, but that may be because they are so young. I do know how exhausting the whole process is, Jelena, and I commend you for fighting the good fight, as it were. You are a good human. :)

Thank you Merricat! The welfare of children is a topic close to my heart. I'm glad it worked out for your daughter. Excellent consequence for the little bullies btw to have them clean the school area. I bet they were grinding their teeth that they had put themselves in a position that made them clean instead of playing with friends.
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Originally Posted by SSH (Post 467302)
Yay for homeschooling. Only my wife and I can bully our kids ;)

Homeschooling is very rare in Sweden. How does it work out with friends? A lot of friendships are made at school and not being there might exclude them from groups of friends I'd guess.

Giligan 04-29-2008 10:14 AM

Homeschooler right here. Being homeschooled turns one into a complete hermit, whether or not one wants to be. Run away.

Squinky 04-29-2008 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Merricat (Post 467298)
I don't know how old you were when you were bullied, Squinky...

Started when I was about six and then some, actually. Fortunately, by the time I reached my teen years, I'd learned to become mostly invisible.

Lee in Limbo 04-30-2008 05:00 AM

I experienced some bullying when I was a kid. Sadly, in those days, nobody really paid attention to that. To this day, I still find overbearing, insensitive people painfully unbearable to be around. I'm a relatively strong personality myself, but I do find myself fading out of the picture when someone starts getting in my face to take a stronger lead. I'm not terribly competitive.

I respect Jelena's efforts. I congratulate Merricat. I hug Squinky.

I wish humans were just a little bit less like pack animals in social situations.

Merricat 04-30-2008 06:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Squinky (Post 467374)
Started when I was about six and then some, actually. Fortunately, by the time I reached my teen years, I'd learned to become mostly invisible.

The people who bullied you likely peaked at seventeen and now lead dreary lives that are spectacularly alike.

Hammerite 04-30-2008 07:12 AM

It's very inspirational to see that people who were reserved in their teenage years are living happy and fulfilled lives.

SSH 04-30-2008 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Jelena (Post 467314)
Homeschooling is very rare in Sweden. How does it work out with friends? A lot of friendships are made at school and not being there might exclude them from groups of friends I'd guess.

The social thing is what many people (including myself when I first met some) first ask to homeschooling parents. Personally, I was pretty withdrawn until I went to University and I went to a normal state-run school, so going to school hardly guarantees you a place in a clique. My girls have friends in church, in the homeschooling groups we go to, in ballet class, gymnastic classes, Suzuki piano classes, Rainbows and various other friends of the family. Kids in school these days are ushered too and from school in cars, have piles of homework (even at 5 years old) and play computer games and watch TV. I'm pretty sure my girls get as much socialising done as any other kids in our village.

But enough defensiveness. Homeschooling means that my girls are finished their schoolwork (and homework equivalent) by lunchtime each day due to a 2:1 teacher/pupil ratio! They go on all kinds of "field trips" in the afternoon: way more than most kids or sometimes they just play with toys or in the garden. Homeschooling means my girls get to learn to read and write Spanish (from my Spanish wife) and be bilingual and don't face teacher or peer pressure to speak English. There's plenty English in their lives with monolingual ignorant old me and almost everyone else around them, so their English skills are not a problem.

There's plenty other little things too (like my 3 year old is already better at mental arithmetic than me...) but I'm fed up typing for now!


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