Just a little update. I started with my new found thought process, more patience, and most importantly a notepad.
and the notepad made everything a little easier for me. im made some great progress today in both games without ever even thinking about getting outside help.
I wouldn;t have thought just mapping everything out on paper would help make things so clear.
Maybe when i get more experienced i wont need it as much but for now it has been vital and helped me really get the enjoyment and satisfaction out of both games.
Im definitely having a blast now