That reminds me, for those of you who aren't as prudish and inexperienced as I am, to what extent does having prior experience actually matter? I ask because a) my parents waited until they were married, and they're still happily together after 25 years, and b) I don't really see much point in having sex just to be more experienced. Then again, I'm female (thus having to bear the brunt of the reproductive issues at stake) and I was raised in an arguably less sex-driven culture than my Caucasian peers.
Oh, and I also questioned my sexuality when I was a teenager... and wound up deciding that I can't find a label that fits, and that I don't really need one.