I look at her eyes and her smile. A willingness to smile is a plus. Also, because of my physical limitations, I often have to turn up the personality to compensate...which is fine by me, as I love to make people laugh. Spontanaeity doesn't hurt either, but there's a fine line between "free spirit" and "psychotic obsessive loner". lol
I also look at how she responds to the world around her. A woman who comes off as compassionate toward others, aware of more than just her place in the present surroundings, is infinitely more fascinating than someone who is vain, or unable to show empathy. And having her own opinions, not just agreeing with what she thinks you want to hear. An appreciation of life's little moments as well...I'm big on stopping to smell the roses.
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