Hmm...I used to think of this place as an addiction I had to quit. Then I just decided not to fight it, but enjoy it.
If Trep also began to feel like foruming was too much of a drain on his time, would it be indicative of a positive change in his life that he no longer visits?
I'm not sure if that puts a positive spin on it for some. Others might feel, "He considers our relationship a waste of time?!" and be hugely disappointed. I guess we gotta wait for him to clarify things.