The nature of debatle always includes an element of heated discussion.
This forum has had it's fair share like anywhere else, but I actually think that it doesn't happen as much here as elsewhere.
I've found here to be calmer and more willing to see the other side than most places i've been to which usually just desolve into stupid naming calling and verbal insults.
I'll certainly be sad to see you go and would suggest you maybe take a breather rather than leave all together.
Don't go