Love is a thing of trust - you have to trust someone you love. To be head-over-heels in love with someone is the ultimate trust and you're open to the ultimate in hurt because you're so vulnerable. On the other hand, if you haven't opened yourself to this kind of love, you can't know what a totally joyous and thrilling experience it can be.
Even with Scott, when he knew it couldn't go anywhere, he still opened his heart, and gave his love and trust to this other person, wholly and without any walls between them. This is the ultimate in love, and only when you've experienced this can you truly admit to have been head-over-heels, 100% in love. Without that kind of commitment, you have walls between you, and never will reach a closeness that is special.
Don't ever regret what you do when in love. Being able to give that way is a gift that not everyone can, or even wants to experience, sadly. I've been in love this way, and the world just seems to be a more beautiful place to live in.
Lynsie
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Nothing can bring you peace but yourself.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
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