It's kind of painful to go through the list of games being recommended as their sole purpose seem to be to mock me for being completely inept at playing action heavy games.
The games that I think would have loved but never finished becasue they were too hard:
Dues EX
System Shock 2
Half Life
Thief
Realms of the Haunting
Notice a trend? I need to get me some skillZ. I'm missing out on a lot of gaming goodness because I suck.