I'd never marry because it'd turn my dedication and love into an obligation. I'd rather not feel like I
have to be nice and sweet to those I love. Some people can do a marriage and ignore that fact - as in, ignore it turned it into an obligation. I couldn't, so it's not for me.
Elton: I think there's a big difference between commitment and commitment. You'd just have to ask BoyToy whether I'm committed to him or not, I'm sure a positive answer would come without hesitation.
I think having to fell a decision every day in the matter makes it more of a commitment to me than marriage would (for me) - it may be a subconscious decision, but it's there.
Additionally, I prefer having to 'work hard' to keep someone.
That, and as long as polygamous marriages aren't allowed, I'd not be able to stay true to my relationships.
Okay, so I'm a bit of an oddball I guess, carry on
