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Old 01-23-2005, 05:57 PM   #92
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Originally Posted by EasilyConfused
Men, take note: ask her about herself--anything about herself. (Adjust the sentence for gender preferences as applicable.) This is the single biggest complaint I hear from my female friends--it usually takes 3-4 dates before a lot of guys will express any interest in us or our views. I think it's just nerves, but it can be a killer!

(Wait, if I like to talk about the other person, but I want the guy to ask me about me . . . then I am as usual . . . confused.)

Anything in particular that we should asking about or does it matter? Would stuff about her school work or job be good things to start with or is that stuff that I should avoid?
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