Hmmm that sounds really like they totally disregarded who you might be and what you might like. Some people adore a rompy fun exchange, while to others what feels cozy and makes them feel special is a serious chat or even just a quiet side by side looking at the stars.
If you were made to feel uncomfortable that was sadly someone who for that moment at least (not wanting to generalize their whole pesonality) who just wanted attention and didn't care about your own ways and personality. Because if flirtation is about moments of intimacy - then anything that doesn't consider who you are isn't intimate - it is intrusive and possibly manipulative.
I certainly can understand how that sort of behavior would be off setting and even over whelming. Not nice, I would think.
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