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10-02-2005, 09:13 PM | #61 | |
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I have kinda sorta maybe met someone, however she's pretty complicated and has some issues. We're friends, and it's looking more and more like that's all it'll ever be, but like my emotional state...we'll see. Oh well, no matter which way that goes...she's been a great friend, and I'll always have that with her.
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10-03-2005, 07:49 AM | #62 |
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I am happy. I am thankful for miracles and good things that occured in life, so I am happy. Actually, I am deeply heartbroken, pained, sad and disappointed due to certain events that happened to me, the effects left me a long lasting impression. I'd give anything to turn back time and make some changes to the unpleasant memories. Sometimes, when I don't even know myself anymore or what I want, I would say I am unhappy. But at the same time, I am happy. Does that make sense?
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10-03-2005, 08:09 AM | #63 | |
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10-03-2005, 11:03 AM | #64 |
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5 1/2 years beforehand and around 2 years married(including the last 3 months of official separation), so I knew her for 7 1/2 years. Well, I still know her and as I've said, we're in touch, but we're both on different paths, now.
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10-03-2005, 04:49 PM | #65 |
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Ah. I just ask because I told my gf of two years that we won't marry until we've been together for at least 5 years and have lived together for one year, but now after what you said, maybe I should make it longer?
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10-03-2005, 05:15 PM | #66 | |
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Either the marriage will work or it won't, but postponing the inevitable doesn't help your odds of success. There exists a school of thought which states that first marriages are disposable and should be dispensed with as soon as possible; Kind of like a test-run so you'll know what you really want in a life-partner. Also, the longer you wait, the more likely your partner is to go find someone who wants to get married now. ScottMate
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10-03-2005, 05:16 PM | #67 |
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Er...so you're saying I should uh....what are you saying?
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10-03-2005, 05:22 PM | #68 |
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He's saying get married sooner rather than later. People do change when they get married, although that is not always gonna be the case. Who the feck knows why, but they do.
Also, I lived with her for a year before marrying, but we were more or less living together even before that...just not our own place.
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10-03-2005, 05:24 PM | #69 | |
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In short, either shit or get off the pot. ScottMate
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10-03-2005, 05:26 PM | #70 | |
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10-03-2005, 07:15 PM | #71 |
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BTW, here's a pic of the wench ex-wifey that spawned this mighty thread...my new friend whatever you want to call her is below that:
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10-03-2005, 07:30 PM | #72 | |
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Anyway, Scott, your "shit or get off the pot" comment just made this whole thing even MORE romantic. Thank you for the fecal imagery. I guess i'm just trying to be safe than sorry, but you're probably right, it's not something you plan out. I just don't want to lose half of my stuff! |
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10-03-2005, 07:38 PM | #73 |
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The US Marine's maxim of "Lead, follow, or get out of the way" didn't seem quite appropriate.
You're a penniless college student. Exactly what "stuff" would she be entitled to? ScottMate
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10-03-2005, 07:53 PM | #74 | |
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This is from the book I mentioned above:
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10-03-2005, 08:05 PM | #75 | |
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10-03-2005, 08:25 PM | #76 | |
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10-03-2005, 08:57 PM | #77 | |
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Yeah, you wouldn't believe how much it cost me to have my new Murcielago disguised as a 1988 Oldsmobile station wagon to thwart would-be car thieves. That cost almost as much as having my mansion disguised as a dumpy apartment building. ScottMate
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10-03-2005, 09:01 PM | #78 |
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No, tempsie, we all know where Scott's money goes - he's personally keeping the airlines in business with his peripatetic meanderings. He must win lots of money in Reno, to supplement his paycheck.
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10-03-2005, 09:11 PM | #79 |
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In other words, Scottsie knows exactly how to handle his earnings in the way most advantageous to him.
Additionally, if you don't want your soon-to-be ex-wife to get your stuff, then keep your stuff the hell out of the nuptial agreement in the first place.
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