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Nanay will eventually die. When that will happen is anyone's guess. But I know that my desire, both selfish and selfless, is to make what remaining time she has as comfortable, as comforting, and as rich as possible before she must go. I felt and thought the same about my dad, which is why I originally moved down here to California. I came to help Mom care for him, but a month after my arrival he finally bowed out of this life. So now Mom's turn is steadily approaching, and I want to do the same for her as she had so beautifully and lovingly done for Dad. It's funny, what I felt while visiting her at hospital. Each time before I'd leave her to go home I'd stroke her hair, tell her to be good and not to give the nurses a hard time, and tell her I love her. I felt that with each word with her, each stroke of her hair, I at once was closer to her than I was before a moment before, more enriched than I was a moment before, and distant from her a moment before in terms of mortality. It's one of the most beautiful feelings. Connectedness through eventual separation.
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09-06-2010, 11:52 PM | #5822 |
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That's pretty amazing Intrepid, and I say that out of admiration and respect. I think you've developed a great philosophy and should definately be proud of this. Though I'm still young and have plenty of time myself, I hope that I can only have that sense of comfort and relationship when that time comes for me too...
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09-07-2010, 12:24 AM | #5823 |
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About the security thing-It shouldn't affect you guys for very long, since you have so many posts. It's supposed to cut down on spam, and you shouldn't have to do the code for every post. It's only for new people that may be spammers.
Trep-I understand what you mean about the connection you get from eventual separation. I felt that way with my cat, although not the same thing of course.
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Thanks, guys. I realized the post above needed to be in my blog so I edited and copied and pasted. And added...
birthdays, phở soup, and death | a space alien Quote:
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09-07-2010, 10:33 AM | #5827 |
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Better it retains some level of mystery. If we explain how it works then spammers will find a workaround for it.
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09-07-2010, 11:04 AM | #5828 |
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09-10-2010, 11:35 AM | #5829 |
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I'm back after four days in Stockholm learning more about working in a law court.
The course was good, but I've gained weight since we ate something every other hour it seemed. Three course lunches and coffee with pie every afternoon. Not to mention the amazing breakfasts the hotel served. I will have to work out on my stationary bicycle, take long brisk walks and cut down on carbohydrates in order to get in shape. In two weeks I'm going back to Stockholm for another three day course.... EDIT: Oh, and I went to see Annie Leibovitz exhibition: A photographer's life 1990-2005. Amazing!
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09-10-2010, 12:07 PM | #5830 |
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Heya Blogsie!
I had a very nice semi-blind date last Wednesday. We went to the Apenheul, a zoo with only apes and monkeys. Unfortunately I forgot my camera so i had to use my phone for all the pictures. That's nervousness for you! But of course I didn't come all the way there to take pictures. We had a very nice afternoon together. We knew each other a bit from the Internet, but this was the first time we saw each other and talked to each other. This was my first date where I didn't have to do much mental work to get on the same level as her, if you know what I mean. It just clicked. Not that I'm in love with her already, but this definitely was the best date I've had so far. And it isn't over yet. We had dinner together and we decided to visit the technology museum Nemo in Amsterdam next time. We'll see where this leads! |
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I had a discussion like that with my former boss once about who had the least amount of testosteron in his body. It went something like "I HAVE LESS TESTOSTERON THAN YOU!" which is a bit of a contradiction if you think about it.
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09-11-2010, 07:17 PM | #5834 |
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Aww, congrats on having a good blind date, tsa!
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09-12-2010, 03:20 AM | #5835 |
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I'm glad you had a great blind date tsa......... *sigh* its just sad it wasnt with me ...........teehee
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09-12-2010, 03:53 AM | #5836 |
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Nice news about your blind date, tsa! Wouldn't mind going on one, myself, to be honest so that: 1) I could get a date without the difficulty of asking someone out, and 2) so I could realise that my fears about dating and asking someone out were probably unfounded anyway.
Also, I've had a brief pang of inspiration to write that hopefully isn't completely unfounded.
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09-12-2010, 11:58 AM | #5837 |
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Well actually it's via a dating site so we had chatted already and knew what we look like. That's why I said it was a semi-blind date. But these dates are always a bit exciting because people can be very different from what you expect when you meet them in the flesh. You should try a datingsite oncex Hammie. You're quite eloquent and funny here on the forums, so maybe it's easier for you to get to know someone that way before you meet.
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09-13-2010, 07:34 PM | #5838 |
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I tried my hand at manual labour, it was strangely invigorating... I wonder if I'll get a muscle? I understand that could increase my sex appeal.
I realised recently that I have a strong distaste for paving, especially poorly placed paving. As a result I have spent several days ridding both the front and back garden of it, with the aid of lump hammer and a chisel. It was actually rather fun somehow, but now in one corner of the garden sits a giant pile of concrete rubble, which I chipped from every paving slab I dug up. I really need a skip to put it in. I also tore out a fireplace, I think I have an appetite for destruction. I've been getting to know my new neighbours too, she commented on the Frank Sinatra I'd been playing, and I mentioned her Nat King Cole, and we mused about the Rat Pack over the fence for a short while. Whatever curious things will I get up to next?
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09-13-2010, 08:50 PM | #5839 |
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Wow, your house and garden must look a mess now Jatsie
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09-14-2010, 08:18 PM | #5840 |
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Dear AG Community Blog,
Can't believe it's been four years since we started this thread. Thinking about how so many things have changed since then... and how so many others haven't at all. Oh, and I stayed home sick with a cold today. Blech. Ta for now, Squankz
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