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06-08-2009, 01:52 PM | #3842 |
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I love it when she dissects my words to almost, but not completely, turn me to her side. I guess I do not understand privilege since I was raised to do your best no matter what. I considered me getting raises, promotions, and training on my individual work ethic not just because I'm a white male.
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06-08-2009, 02:35 PM | #3843 | |
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The way I've come to understand privilege is, ultimately, by knowing that I myself have lots of it. I mean, on one hand, I'm brown and female, two things that work against me in the society I live in. On the other hand, I come from an upper middle class family, which allowed me to grow up in very comfortable circumstances that gave me opportunities to learn and grow in ways that I couldn't have had I been born in a less affluent family. Ultimately, it was up to me to choose what to do with these opportunities, but if I hadn't had a computer available to me in my home at a young age, or been able to get my university degree in computer science, or had enough money to travel to California and gain experience as an intern at one of my favourite video game companies, I'd be in a completely different place, career-wise. Hence, while I did put a lot of my own initiative and work ethic into where I am today, I had a lot of help getting there.
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06-08-2009, 03:08 PM | #3844 | ||
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I remember these institutional power, and other terms when reading on some sociology when I got some single subjects. But I would like to take some of these aspects a step higher, not only just the classical race and gender/sex but also looks! Which is one thing I feel people ignore and avoid discussing. To me it is an excuse when people say, oh we can't help judging other due to how they are born. It is just natural! BUT just saying that is a fault in itself, because even if its natural does not mean we cannot adjust or be more conscious over our discrimination of those who do not fit the "ideal" looks. I feel like there is nobody out there speaking for those who fall into this unfortunate category (getting bullied due to how they are born, don't get jobs because they weren't cute or "pretty" enough). Looks can be anything even height! maybe I might go a bit too far feeling a bit guilty for being tall knowing that it brings greater success than being not that tall. But to me I don't feel right accepting these "coincidences" and go on with the privileges and not care about those who are less unfortunate. So to me this has a higher concern due to the fact that most people I talk about don't care or understand what I am trying to say and continue their unchallenged discrimination of others. Even those who fall into the "unfortunate" group *as I call it here* also share the same look ideals as everyone else. To me its just disgusting if you love and care for someone but cannot be with them because they aren't born a certain way. There is enough evidence that physical attraction is not just based on physical but also mental attributes. Quote:
I do believe there exist a degree of problems so I wouldn't exacly support shutting up everyone because "everyone" has got problems. I think its ridiculous to not see the different degrees of problems. Because there is a big difference of someone having a problem with not being able to buy certain materialistic needs and those who lack food to survive. Usually I come into an argument with people who don't want to consider buying more ethical products, because in their defence they say they have their own problems to concern with as if there is no opening for improvement or considerations of others who might have it worse than you. Last edited by MikeLXXXVIII; 06-08-2009 at 03:22 PM. |
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06-08-2009, 06:22 PM | #3845 |
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Dear Blog Thingy,
I miss my volunteer work with school kids at the Asian art museum. Started the program a year and a half ago, training via lectures and papers for several months before granted full fledged docent status (even though I already have a degree in Fine Art with solid Art History knowledge). I still have my badge. Had to give up the docentship over a month ago because I was then working full-time and had to look after Nanay, who is 82 years old, legally blind, and has a heart condition. Perhaps once we finally move up to the bay area I could look into programs at, say, San Francisco Museum of Modern Art, or another institution nearby. Not sure yet, but I do know I want to work with kids again, particularly kids who may not be so privileged to be exposed to culture in a big way. I do, however, look forward to doing the AIDS Walk in San Francisco next month with my niece/best friend. This cause is very important to me, very close to home. It'll be my third city I walked in (the first two being L.A. and Chicago), and I know, nowhere near my last.
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06-09-2009, 03:13 AM | #3848 | |
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And dissecting things is pretty interesting! because words and sentences have a very complex but also a spesific purpose/meaning/expression. A norwegian author actually Henrik Ibsen I think it was once said "words are like weapons", because they can influence a lot!. By looking into semiotics it is pretty fascinating how well compiled and well thought words are made. So you can find a lot of things by dissecting someones sentences, especially mine . :p Like we have a wide range of sentences to form based on what we would like to present ourselves with. We do know most of the time what "codes" fit for what situation, or what codes we would like to use in a particular manner. Like to avoid saying inappropriate stuff for situations we would like to avoid. By dissecting you can discover a lot of interesting things you didn't think of before. But then it can also lead to overassumptions :p. I remember being in this class with a lot different people from different institutes. I loved listening to this certain student who dissected the authors words and finding some "proof" over certain words of use that this author made which sounded biased. Being able to spot such things in litterature is pretty important, and not just take things for granted that the person you are reading isn't holding something back. There is always a certain discourse going around either you like it or not!. There is too few of those students and I have noticed that you do get punished for being like that. The irony is that the university encourages you to be independent and question your surroundings, but its rare that they accept that practice. Usually they pretend that those who found a new approach didn't explain themselves well, but I am sure thats just an excuse because I have noticed personally that people don't like to look at things from a new perspective if it threatens dominant ideals. So you have to be careful with your opinions sadly. Sorry I talk all over places, as went from dissecting/linguistics to critisize the educational system. Last edited by MikeLXXXVIII; 06-09-2009 at 03:27 AM. |
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06-10-2009, 07:51 AM | #3849 |
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Dear Aggie,
Post-spinal headache sucks. Even more than suffering an epileptic attack before it - at least I don't remember anything of that. But this headache I can do nothing against, not even taking two Aspirin helps. My mother says that drinking lots of water helps, but I have yet to see any result. This has been going since monday afternoon. I hope I will be fit again by Friday, so I can meet Thomas. -
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(((Jazzie)))
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I'm quite happy at the moment, as something I said earlier made a girl who I am madly obsessed with laugh a little bit.
It's stupid how something so small managed to make my day...
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Not yet. ^_^ Also, I did have a boyfriend until two weeks ago, but sadly he split up with me, because his ex-girlfriend had come back. Don't understand this wrong though. He didn't come visit to quit, but made the decision while here. Either way two people would end up crying, the person he decided against, and he himself, because he loved us both. A few days earlier he had chosen me, but then he was confronted with her again, and it threw his feelings all into chaos again. I am still sad, of course, but there is nothing I can do about it, except look ahead. In case you are wondering, why I hadn't mentioned anything earlier, it's because I wanted to see how things developed. Now it seems they are to stay this way for now, so I am looking ahead. And a friend of mine decided to introduce me to Thomas, and since she had the right instinct before, I trust her judgement. -
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((((Jaz))))) time will heal your broken heart. I'm sorry that you have a nasty headache.
Ham- That is awsome..... its the little things that make life great
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Ah, all my questions were answered already. Sorry. I hope you and Thomas work out well Jazz!
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06-10-2009, 11:41 AM | #3857 |
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Who is this guy who made one of my little girls cry!?!?!? I'll go Endless on his ass!
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06-10-2009, 12:52 PM | #3858 |
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I'm feeling quite nervous about how I'm going to fair when, in a few months, I'll be going to university.
I'm really quite shy, and I'm therefore quite worried that I'll be spending an incredibly lonely three years...
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06-10-2009, 01:11 PM | #3859 |
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Everyone going to college at first is looking to make friends. Besides, most everyone at a good college has at least some degree of maturity and adulthood, and hence the social circles are a bit more open. I've already made several good friends at my school, and I haven't even moved onto campus yet.
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I was also pretty shy when I went to University, but because the people are indeed more mature there I soon had a few friends that I still see from time to time, 20 years later. Don't worry too much Hammie.
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