[stepurhan]

Originally Posted by Squinky

1. Why do so many people lead less exciting lives when they get married and/or have children?
2. At what point in a relationship do you know it's time to end it?
3. Since dating is so fraught with pain and complications, why do people even bother?

1. They don't necessarily. I've done things since I've been married that I probably wouldn't have if I wasn't. Some of them are things Mrs Urhan introduced me to. Some of them are things Mrs Urhan encouraged that I might have dropped on my own.
2. When the relationship makes either of you happy for more than brief periods. When the pain of being in the relationship exceeds the fear of losing it. When you both realise that you are better as just friends (Mrs Urhan is still good friends with her ex-husband)
3. Because there are times when it isn't pain and complications. The joy of those times makes having endured the earlier pain worthwhile.

1. What do you do that makes you happy that other people think is weird?
2. Have you ever not done something you wanted to for fear of how others would view it?
3. What's your favourite dessert? (A nice light question to finish on )