If it's an honest opinion you're after Rob then here's one.
You are not a man that will make women swoon, either through lust or horror. You're a very normal-looking average sort of guy, neither Brad Pitt or Shrek. If you haven't changed your hairstyle much since the picture I saw or you then you've got a style that suits you (you don't have a shaggy shoulder-length or ponytail sort of face). I think were you to grow a beard you might look a bit odd (as I recall your hair is quite light and beards really need to be dark to contrast against the skin) As long as you look after yourself in both hygiene and diet then you're doing fine.
I prescribe a dose of
How to Look Good Naked. If only there was a male equivalent program we could send you on. Maybe Wok Gan would be able to convince you.
